It's the first day of the month july and I just want to make a motivational post that would enlighten everyone who would ever stumble across my blog.I've been in many situations where I was bound and about to give up. Situations where there might be impossible soluttions. I've actually compiled the things I do when i'm on the verge of quitting or giving up on a particular thing that i have passion doing.Giving up on something has many factors and causes,I've also compiled the causes and factors that causes an individual to give up and these are the following:
Causes and Factors why People give up:
1.)the primary reason why we give up on something is because the particular thing we do does't suffice to our daily needs or isn't profitable to many people's eyes.The common problems of everyone in the world is money.A big example would be an anonymous painter selling his craft on the streets,sooner or later he then finds out that he is not earning enough profit to suffice his needs.he then gives up because of the lack of funds and profit.The sad thing here is no one is safe,many people around the world have marvelous talent,yot they choose the less talented and already rich people who just buys their way to spotlight.Just an observation to any industry nowadays.
2.)The predicament of your elderly would also hold you back on the things you actually love doing.It could be your Parents or even Family members.You're parents or family could actually dictate you on what to do,what to further and what to be in life.If you're actually having this problem you might still living with your parents like me,I'ts hard but that is just the law of life.They could actually control your path,an example would be your parents would tell you that what you're doing is not gonna bring you any success in life,remember that not everyone is blessed with an overly supportive family/parent.This could actually bring you great frustration and could eventually lead to you giving up on what you want to do.
3.)You can be your own worst enemy,,you may find yourself in a tough slump with th factors I wrote above.you can be pushed to the edge or burned with the burden of the depression it might cause you.It can lead to a war within you,weighing your passion or the burden caused to you.I actually experienced the same scenario,having to fight out the wild criticism my family gave me towards my love for sharing my knowledge with people.I will tell you that not everyone can handle the urge of emotion,especially when you are down,you will be very vulnerable in quitting or giving up everything in just one snap.
The solution to these problems really lies within you and not other people.Learning not to give up is a worthy task worth learning and these are the possible solutions that could help you erase the thought of Giving up what you have started
How not to Give Up
- When the going gets tough,surround yourself with positive and good people,they can uplift your spirit and remove sadness and depression.Surrounding yourself with positivity also gives you new reasons to further what you started and erase the thought of giving up.
- The Mastermind Principle Alliance was introduced by the world famous author Napoleon Hill,this Mastermind Principle Alliance encourages you to make an alliance with people who are successful.It can boost what your passion is and it will give you more motivation through the succesful person's knowledge.the alliance could be made with people,not necessarily succesful but people who actually progress near to their goal.I can prove this method because I have made an alliance with a knowledgable and succesful blogger who taught me how to do things and made things easier.By using this principle you progress and eliminate the thought of giving up.
- Focus more and avade procastination.Focus is one of the fundamentals of success.If we focus more on a particular thing,we learn more and become wiser each time we do the things we love,Sooner or later with enough knowledge,we learn the loopholes and cracks and solve the problems served at us with ease,Thus eliminating the thought of quitting and throwing away what we started.
- Draw your ideas and look back,reflect and think about,"is this plan worth giving up?".Think about the major possibilites and opportunites you could achieve if you stopped and quit.what you've done.The only thing you will get if you passed on and threw the brilliant thing you started is regret.Always think twice when you're about to quit.This could actually give you more reasons to continue than reasons to stop or quit.
- Avoid Jealousy and Envy. This could eventually cause major disappointment and frustrations in life,you will ask yourself why do they have this ,and why you don't.This could bring a mental hiatus and unstability.Instead envying other people of their success,MAKE YOUR OWN. This could make you work harder and set further goals ahead of you and eventually reach them,finally ridding yourself of the act of giving up.
Doing all these method would actually make your life better and will mold you as a better individual,these methods will also instert a major positivity in your mentality.
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